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Tuesday, 18 September 2007

Senti-Emo, o Wala Lang?

First off, I was tagged by Nelo. Unfortunately, I have already answered that meme in Multiply so just click on this link to view the answered meme.

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So with all the evil-imbyerna-impakta mode all drained out of me, let me share some things that I have learned and realized with all of the backstabbing episodes. Yung iba medyo kalokohan but it helped me revive my self-esteem that went comatose for quite some time.

  • Live and let live because each waking day is a gift for each and everyone of us. Don't let those people ruin your day. They're God-given for you to have a constant reminder that you have to be mature. When the time comes that your day isn't ruined by them, that's the time that you're mature enough...at pwede na silang kunin ni God.

  • Nanghihinayang ka ba sa friendship? Just don't. They should've thought of that way before doing those personal attacks. Anyhoo, learn to forgive even if they don't ask for your forgiveness. You can't appreciate things when you have ill feelings towards other people. After all, with friends like that, who needs enemies?

  • Eeew. It all started with a GUY that they can never have but came to me (ano daw?!). After failing to get the best of me (and my lovelife), they attacked me about everything. Clearly, that's the best that they can do. So go, kick ass and continue to do well each and every day. Excelling at some point isn't a crime. You live for yourself, not for them.

  • From Mark, a.k.a. Balahibo Boy, Sasquatch
    They're not your friends if they keep on pulling you down...but there's a good thing out of this. You now know that you're way ahead of them. Just do your thing, they're just playing dirty so that they can catch up on you.
    (OK, nosebleed. Mahaba pa ito pero baka hemophilia na ang abutin natin)

  • From Kat, my former dormmate
    Hayaan mo na sila ate. Lagi mong tatandaan na mas maganda ka kaysa sa kanila dahil ikaw ang pinupuntahan ng lalaki, hindi sila.
    Dahil sa ginawa nila parang na-feel ko na ang pangit-pangit ko...pero naisip ko na tama rin si Kat. Haha, feeling. Thanks Kat! Instant cardioversion sa aking dysrhythmic na self-esteem ang mga sinabi mo.

  • From Mimi, Ang Dakilang Pintor at Mananahi
    Maintain peace and order. Isipin mo na lang ikaw ay peace-loving woman of substance na hindi pumapatol sa mga taong may IQ at EQ na 5...Kung sinabi ng mga chismosang inggitera na cheapskate ang mga lecturer mo nung in-house review mo, wag mong ipagkalat na mas cheapskate ang lecturer nila. Just think and keep to yourself, "Pakiulit? Mrs. Lucy Espinosa, Chief Nurse sa NCMH, cheapskate?! Eh ano kung cheapskate ang lecturer ko. Keber! Less than one month lang ako nag-review pero pumasa pa rin ako".
    Natawa ako dito sa baba ng IQ at EQ. True, na-hurt ako dahil parang sinabi na rin nila that I wasn't good enough to pass the board exams dahil parang "incompetent" DAW ang lecturers namin. Pero as usual, wala akong pakialam sa kanila, basta food trip kami ng mga roommates ko. Take negative criticisms lightly and make it as your motivation to do your best...so in the end, you have the last laugh and say, "Who's laughing now, bitch?!"
Another lesson: Don't slack. Mahirap magpa-super petiks mode before board exams.

Tip lang: when you feel sad, try to verbalize because after that, it'd feel so much better. Tapos maganda rin mag-share sa blogger friends mo. They listen..err, through reading. Ah basta you guys would get it.

Best reinforced knowledge...having friends in cyberspace and real life sure helps. Whee! ~*hug*~

13 comments:

david santos said...

Great work, KC!
VERY GOOD WORK AND VERY NICE BLOG.
THANK YOU

ruff nurse-du-jour said...

akalain mo nga naman kc, marami rin pala tayong matututunan sa mga backstabbing-related episodes natin sa buhay. thanks for bringing those lessons up. nakakaaliw.

and the "dont slack" tip? very helpful indeed. and the sharing of angry feelings through blogging? very therapeutic. remember the psych therapy journaling? parang same effect diba? =)

kc said...

@ david santos: this "no-job yet" experience gave me time to introspect. thank you for those kind words...and thanks for dropping by. =)

@ ruff: true. if we'll all see things on a different light, it all boils down to a life-changing experience. And it also helps when you have other people around.

i'm also considering a career in psyche. i appreciated it a lot during the time Mrs. Espinosa shared some of her experiences and her insights on some of the cases na na-handle niya sa NCMH. =)

cory said...

Diba si Mrs. Espinosa yung hyper na lecturer na dire-diretso na parang hindi humihinga? haha. naalala ko lang.

naku yang mga impaktang yan di na dapat pinagpapansin! pamplers eh! wagi ang sinabi mong "After all, with friends like that, who needs enemies?" tumpak! couldnt have stated it more precisely. all in one ang drama nito, friend n foe ika nga.

ang masasabi ko lang sa kanila, "what a friend!!!" matutunan nyo sana, lalo na ikaw anak ni zuma, na maging masaya para sa iba lalo na kung desreve naman nila maging happy like KC for instance.

true that as for the forgiving part, pwede mo silang patawarin but to forget? malabo ata un. manghingi muna sila ng tawad. ang mga backstabbers hnd basta basta kinakalimutan...

kc said...

@ cory: Tama. Si Mrs Espinosa nga yun. Haha. Katuwa yung mga psyche patient impersonations niya. Kuhang-kuha pati yung mga verbigerations...

Sabi nga ng kapatid ni Mark: They are my "frienemies". Kyut! Atsaka problema na nila yun kung hindi sila masaya para sa akin. Bahala na silang madagdagan ang wrinkles nila. Wahaha!

Tama rin na mahirap kalimutan yung mga ginawa nila. Pero as much as possible, di ko na inaalala yun kasi lalong mahirap mag-move on. Ayokong gumamit ng Olay Total Effects before I even turn 30 *lol*.

Atsaka kaya ko rin nasikmura silang patawarin, hindi pa dumarating ang afterlife, na-karma na sila. (Sus, Philo?!) Tama na iyong mga kamalasan na yun para sa kanila. Ang pangit naman kung kinarma na sila tas may galit pa sa kanila...

Kagagahan man ito pero open ako to start over. Pero as expected, mahihirapan na silang ma-gain ang tiwala ko.

gorjess said...

haha wow i love that evil-imbyerna-impakta mode. yihh promise yan ang mode ko later haha di ko kya toh.

ruff nurse-du-jour said...

"After all, with friends like that, who needs enemies?"

pero pwede ring:

"After all, with enemies like that, who needs friends?" diba? mas winner. hehehe just kidding.

pinagalitan ako once ni ms espinosa sa psych review kasi late akong dumating. hehehe. pero magaling nga cya, as in. very lively pa magdiscuss. mentor din kasi sya ng psych prof namin eh, but she's really, really good. =)

olay total effects? why not try belo? who touches your skin KC? =)

kc said...

@ gorjess: Ganyan ang bipolar *lol*. Sige i-adapt mo na lang para mas masaya. =)

@ ruff: Winner nga ang "After all, with enemies like that, who needs friends?". Wahaha!

Malamang si Ms. Espinosa sabi niya sa iyo, "Anak, late ka na. Labis akong naasiwa sa ginawa mo." Hihi. Laging ganyan ang mode of communication niya. I like her lectures talaga. I learned so much.

Only Dra. Ruffy touches my skin. Dermatologist namin siya simula nung mga bata pa kami. Haha. Pero hmm, try ko din si Dra. Belo...baka humaba din ang hair ko. =)

.: jackie :. said...

exactly, uve graduated a degree tapos sasayangin mo lang ung leveling. way better na wag nang pagukulan ng pansin or better yet, wag na lang pansinin.

buti nga naimbento ang blog para maging outlet ng mga tao sa cyberspace. sure thing we're here to help. :)

im just a message away dear :D

KC said...

Tama. Deadma na lang dapat...

I'm so thankful at nauso ang blog. Maganda rin kasi na makipag-interact sa ibang tao. May mga matututunan ka rin sa mga point of view at experiences nila. Isa pa, it keeps you entertained.

Thanks ateng.. =)

icka said...

continue doing that you don't take it against them, or else you will be like them. keber nila? isipin mo nalng artistahin ka, everyday nasa the buzz to take their nonsense guilt and criticisms. the bottom line is, you know yourself well.

*dont slack* - if not regrets ang abot mo for having petik modes and evrything.

wow.. may take-it-from-the-expert portion kau nung nsg stude ah..

nelo said...

masaya nga mag blog..hehe! kahit patago.

wag na pansinin yang mga lukaret na bakstabers..ikaw naman ang nagwagi eh! alagaan ang kagandahan kasi baka sa susunod itsura mo na ang pansinin nila.

kc said...

salamat nelo. wahaha! wala na rin ak paki sa kanila.